Tuesday, October 30, 2007

Making Women Lust For You

Talk to just about any man, and the odds are pretty good that he'll tell he wouldn't mind being the kind of man that women lust after. We all want to think that we're physically attractive to the opposite sex. However, there are a lot of different reasons that a woman lusts over a man, so there's no one way that any guy can make any woman lust for him. If your goal is to have women lust after you, there are certain things that you can do to make yourself attractive to the broadest range of women possible.

First on the agenda is your appearance.

Sure, many physical attributes are subjective and it's true that "beauty is in the eye of the beholder," but there are certain elements that you can incorporate into your appearance that will increase the odds that women are going to be drawn to you. Most women like their men to be clean and looking sharp. If you show up for your date with a nice five o'clock shadow and your clothes looking like you've run the Boston Marathon in them, the odds are pretty good that your date isn't going to swoon over you. On the flip side, if you show up having just given yourself a good shave and in clean clothes, you're probably on the way to making a pretty good impression. Something else to remember is that most women love a dazzling smile and for their men to have a decent haircut – even though hair length and style are both pretty subjective. Something else that you might work on is getting your eyes to twinkle, making it much more likely for you to get off to a great start.

After your appearance, we get into the gray area of personality traits – some of which women love and some of which women dislike. If you ask what personality trait women most like in a man, the odds are pretty good that "a sense of humor" is going to be near the top of the list. This doesn't mean that you have to find Homer Simpson to be the epitome of comedy or that you need to have watched SOUTH PARK, but rather that you don't take yourself or life too seriously. When you're out on that date, if you can make a woman laugh, you're well on the road to having her seriously want you.

When you're out with her, make sure that you listen to her. No woman likes a man who monopolizes the conversation. Also, don't turn into Mike Macho when it comes time to picking up the check. If she says that she wants to split it, don't make it into a battle. Go along with her and watch as she enjoys the way that you're respecting her wishes.

Women like men who are self-confident, but that doesn't mean that they enjoy arrogant men. They don't. They want someone who knows who he is without being a jerk about it. This also holds true when it comes to being someone who doesn't have a 6-pack abdomen. Most women find men who are attentive to their needs and are confident, relaxed, and sincere, are the men that they most want to spend time with.

In short, with probably just a little work, you can turn yourself into the man that woman are lusting over.

Kathy Stafford, Relationship Coach, "I show singles how to get
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