Tuesday, November 25, 2008

When Customers Just Don't Appreciate You -- Turn It Around with Law of Attraction

by Andrea Conway
http://www.succcessfulselfemployment.com


It's frustrating when your customers' actions don't match their glowing feedback. They say they love you, your services and products, but they don't give you the commitment and repeat business to prove it. In fact, sometimes they leave no matter how hard you try to please them.

What gives?

In order to change your customer dynamic, understand your part in creating it and know how to work with the Law of Attraction to change it. Any Law of Attraction success coach will emphasize to you that like attracts like. Accept responsibility: you receive what you've been sending out. It's a tough pill to swallow, but customers are your mirror. Here's what to do:

Step 1: Stop complaining about your customers. The more you talk about, think about, and focus on their actions and behavior, the more Law of Attraction will match that experience in your life. It's shocking how many businesses routinely complain about customers. What you focus on expands.

Step 2: Practice genuine gratitude and appreciation for the customers you have. Sure it's challenging to find love for customers in your heart when part of you is judging them for what you perceive as wrong behavior. But don't expect gratitude to change them. The key is to change you. Your hard heart is the problem, not your customers. Find authentic appreciation in your heart, and you will attract it from others. (And enjoy your business more too.)

Step 3: Make room for spirituality in business. Regularly focus on your spirit within and acknowledge its power to fulfill your abundance. Spirituality in business allows you to look to your deeper self—instead of to your customers—to attract success.

Bottom line
: Instead of responding to customers' behaviors by trying to control them, focus on your own behaviors. Be grateful for your unappreciative customers. Their gift to you is an opportunity to change yourself. As a solopreneur, commitment to your own growth is the key to success.



Andrea Conway, M.Ed., C.C., is the law of attraction success mentor for solopreneurs and small business owners ready to make all the money they want at the business they love. Get an instant bonus e-report, "Fire Up Your Business Success Using the Law of Attraction," when you subscribe to her free e-zine at http://www.successfulselfemployment.com/  You could qualify for a free 30-minute coaching session!


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